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Some have blackouts, blackouts is like being passed out except they are walking and talking, we think they are in there, but they are not. (I have had them, mostly we never ever remember what we said or did))
If not a blackout, the mind is so foggy they probably might not remember.
(This Just my thought on males, they just don't answer or say they don't remember hoping you will say no more.) Guess not just men ,I don't want to hear anything mean or stupid that I did either.
Many of us learn to save our breath. around the A's.
Teens tend not to hear what mom says, my friend called it "mother deafness"
I would bet some of that carries over to adulthood, seems to me when I try to talk to a mechanic they close their minds, as they think they know what a female will say.
(I love men, so this is not a critasism(sp), just as I see it)
This just tidbits till you get to a meeting.
Each person is different and exceptions always, after some meetings and reading you will learn how to make it easier on yourself.
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