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9 months of sobriety is still early..He is probably not capable of focusing on the marriage and it's issues yet.
In both Alanon and AA - they suggest no major changes for a year. So..you might consider no divorce until you give it a year of fullon Alanon and therapy.
Alot can happen in a year....
Also - I'd find a new therapist..one that specialize in Addiction issues.
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