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Ayers1995 · 09-14-2006, 07:36 AM

Blizzard - I know it is very difficult to get to a point where you know w/o a doubt what you want. You want to be there for him - if he's going to be sober and work on things. BUT will the person that he's become in the mean time make your life together worth it? Will YOU being the provider make you happy or still stress you out?

I can see where we have similar circumstances, especially the fear of being alone. It's very hard to think about day to day life on our own. What will happen to them? We aren't supposed to think about that. We are supposed to focus on what will happen to us.

I wish you luck on finding what "you" want and need. I am trying to do the same.... (((hugs)))

09-14-2006, 07:36 AM	#9 (permalink)
Ayers1995 Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: TX Posts: 359	Blizzard - I know it is very difficult to get to a point where you know w/o a doubt what you want. You want to be there for him - if he's going to be sober and work on things. BUT will the person that he's become in the mean time make your life together worth it? Will YOU being the provider make you happy or still stress you out? I can see where we have similar circumstances, especially the fear of being alone. It's very hard to think about day to day life on our own. What will happen to them? We aren't supposed to think about that. We are supposed to focus on what will happen to us. I wish you luck on finding what "you" want and need. I am trying to do the same.... (((hugs))) __________________ It is better to have your hands full, then empty! (having 3 boys w/in 16 mo)