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debmar · 09-10-2006, 06:17 AM

Wow Jessica, I'm kind of going through that now. It's gonna be a year since I lost my husband in this house. We had no children and I'm sitting in a six bedroom 3000sqft. expense. I've thought about downsizing for sanity, but I think like you said, once I walk out that door, I will go insane. We worked our entire lifes to have this white pickett fence life, with a horror of addiction behind closed doors chasing us. It got my husband and I don't want it to get me too. I'm working on letting go, it's hard. I sympathize with what your going through, it's like another loss.......but as BEST said so well and so true, he will come with me where ever I live, and hey besides I have his urn at home he has no choice, still keeping a sense of humor, it helps. Take Care, Debbei

09-10-2006, 06:17 AM	#3 (permalink)
debmar debbleslosthermarbles Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: ChicagoBurbs Posts: 76	Wow Jessica, I'm kind of going through that now. It's gonna be a year since I lost my husband in this house. We had no children and I'm sitting in a six bedroom 3000sqft. expense. I've thought about downsizing for sanity, but I think like you said, once I walk out that door, I will go insane. We worked our entire lifes to have this white pickett fence life, with a horror of addiction behind closed doors chasing us. It got my husband and I don't want it to get me too. I'm working on letting go, it's hard. I sympathize with what your going through, it's like another loss.......but as BEST said so well and so true, he will come with me where ever I live, and hey besides I have his urn at home he has no choice, still keeping a sense of humor, it helps. Take Care, Debbei __________________ DO WHAT YOU CAN AND THEN PRAY THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE POWER TO DO WHAT YOU CANNOT *St. Augustine* SOY, PALOMA BLANCA DEBBBIE