[mackie]

I would say he's probably still working things out of his system. Not really sure what he 'all' took, but some half-lives on drugs are longer than others.

You are concerned about his controlling attitude..........if a treatment center is worth it's weight in salt, that will be addressed and he will learn that he has very little control. The only thing he should be worried about controlling right now is the will to use. Ideally, he should be learning that surrendering and honesty is the way this program works.

Continued counseling will probably show some other things............a lot of mental disorders overlap each other, are often misdiagnosed and under treated. Keep a positive attitude and don't let him slip through the cracks. Start with the ADHD and go from there. I know for me, personally, the impulsivity is a HUGE issue and something I battle with in my dual diagnosis of depression and OCD.

Your name says a lot..............take care of you, too! I have seen it time and time again...........the addict goes to treatment........starts to put his life back on track.........gets better, does what's asked of him........but the rest of the family remains SICK! It's an inclusive package! Take advantage of any and all family events his treatment center might offer, find your local Al-Anon group (and get a sponsor) and MOSTLY, be kind to yourself! I'm sure it has not been an easy haul for you in dealing with your son's addiction.

Keep posting to let us know your progress! (that's right...........progress not perfection!)