[BigSis]

(((Crashnburn))) ... my sponsor told me once that "No" is a complete sentence.

Is there some reason you HAVE to go to her home? Just call her and leave her the message... short and to the point, without any finger pointing.

I can't see putting yourself into a risky situation or exactly why you need this woman in your life?

I don't see 'friendship' in what you've posted about her... but manipulation and using. A friend allows me to disagree and a friend allows me to have opinions and a friend encourages my good mental and physical health.

I wish you the best.